Monday, August 30, 2010

Hiding a prior divorce from husband also amounts to cheating: Gujarat high court

JUDGMENT AWAITED

 

Hiding a prior divorce from husband also amounts to cheating: Gujarat high court

The Gujarat high court recently gave two significant judgements in cases lodged by an NRI couple after their divorce. Justice Akil Kureshi of the high court ruled that if a woman conceals her previous marital status (including a marriage that had ended in a divorce), it amounted to cheating. In such a case, the husband can file a police complaint against his wife, the court said.

The judge also held that a woman can file a criminal complaint against her husband if he does not return her belongings after their marriage had ended in a divorce in a foreign country.

According to the case details, Mitesh and Tanya, who are currently citizens of the US, originally hail from Kheda district. They had got married with the consent of their respective families but their marriage soon ran into trouble and they divorced in the US in 2007. But the bad blood between the two did not end there.

Tanya filed a complaint in Nadiad under the dowry act among others, alleging that Mitesh had not returned her belongings which amounted to Rs20-Rs 25 lakh. These were given to her by her father at the time of the marriage but they were still with Mitesh's family, Tanya claimed. She demanded that Mitesh and his family return her belongings as she had divorced Mitesh in the US.

Mitesh had also filed a complaint at the same police station alleging that Tanya had cheated him as she had not disclosed the fact that prior to their marriage she was married to another boy and had divorced him too.

In his judgement, Justice Kureshi gave the green signal for filing of a police complaint against Tanya for not disclosing to Mitesh the details of her previous marriage and divorce. But the court turned down Mitesh's plea that Tanya's police complaint against him and his family for not returning her belongings be quashed.

The court also refused to entertain Tanya's argument that even if Mitesh's allegation was accepted as true, it did not constitute an offence as her previous marriage had been annulled by the competent court in the US.

On the other hand, Mitesh in his complaint had argued that Tanya had concealed details of her previous marriage even in the marriage form. This amounted to cheating and forgery, he said.

"Tanya had made a false declaration saying that she was unmarried, after which he had agreed to marry her," Mitesh declared in his complaint.

In her complaint demanding the return of her belongings, Tanya stated Mitesh and his family had not returned what belonged to her. As per the terms of their divorce settlement, the two parties were supposed to return each other's property, she stated, adding that Mitesh was now saying that he and his family did not have any of Tanya's belongings.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Unemployed man can't be forced to pay maintenance to wife -no legal presumption that behind every failed marriage there is either dowry demand or domestic violence-misuse of 498a and domestic violence act DELHI HC

 

 

Crl.M.C.No. 491/2009      Sanjay Bhardwaj & Ors. v. The State & Anr.  

* IN THE HIGH COURT OF DELHI AT NEW DELHI
Date of Reserve: 9th August, 2010
Date of Order: 27th August, 2010

Crl.M.C.No. 491/2009            27.08.2010

  Sanjay Bhardwaj & Ors.        ... Petitioner 
      Through: Dr. Naipal Singh, Advocate

Versus
  The State & Anr.                ... Respondents
      Through: Mr. O.P.Saxena, APP for the State With Mr. Gajraj Singh, SI
      Mr. K.C.Jain, Adv. for the Complainant/Wife


JUSTICE SHIV NARAYAN DHINGRA

1. Whether reporters of local papers may be allowed to see the judgment?  Yes.
2. To be referred to the reporter or not?            Yes.
3. Whether judgment should be reported in Digest?        Yes.

JUDGMENT

The present petition under Section 482 Cr.P.C. assails an order of interim maintenance under  The Protection of Women from  Domestic Violence  Act, 2005 (in short Domestic Violence Act)  passed by the learned MM  on 16th January, 2008  and confirmed by the learned  Additional Sessions Judge in appeal by order dated 29th February, 2008.


2.    The petitioner was a Non-Resident Indian, working in  Luanda,  Angola  in Africa as a Manager.  He came to India  taking leave from his job for marriage.  Marriage between the petitioner and respondent  no.2/wife was settled through matrimonial advertisement.  The respondent wife was MA (English) and MBA.  As per her bio-data sent before marriage, she was doing job with a Multinational Company.  The marriage between the parties was solemnized on 14th May, 2007 at a Farmhouse in Vasant Kunj and was got registered on 25th May, 2007.  The parties lived together for a limited period of 10 days i.e. from 15th May, 2007 to 19th May, 2007 and from 2nd June to 6th  June, 2007.  While the allegations of husband are  that marriage failed within 3 weeks since  the wife was suffering from a chronic disease about which no information was given to him  before marriage  and a fraud was played.  The allegations made by wife were as usual of dowry demand and harassment.  Since the marriage did not succeed,  the husband/petitioner filed a petition under Section 12 of Hindu Marriage Act for declaring the marriage  as  null and void and the wife  first  filed an FIR against the husband under Section 498A/406 IPC and then filed an application under Section 12 of Domestic Violence Act.


3.    It is not relevant for the purpose of this petition  to go into the details of allegations and counter allegations made  by each other.  Suffice it to say that the learned MM passed an order dated 16th  January, 2008 directing husband to pay an interim maintenance of   A5000/- pm to the wife.  He fixed this maintenance without considering the contentions raised by the husband  (as is stated in the order)  that  the husband  lost his job in Angola  (Africa) where he was working  before marriage because his passport was seized by police  and he could not join his duties back.  After marriage he remained  in India, he was not employed.  In  the appeal,  learned Additional Session Judge noted the contentions raised by the husband that he had become jobless because of the circumstances as stated by him and  he had no source of income,  he was not even able to maintain himself and had incurred  loan,  but observed that since the petitioner had earlier worked abroad as  Sales Manager  and  in view  of the  provisions of  Domestic Violence Act,  he had the  responsibility to maintain  the  wife and monetary  relief  was  necessarily  to be provided to  the aggrieved person i.e. wife.  He observed that the wife was not able to maintain herself therefore husband,  who  earned handsomely  in past while working abroad, was liable to pay A 5000/- pm to the wife as fixed by the learned MM. 

4.    A perusal of Domestic Violence Act  shows  that Domestic Violence Act does not create any additional right in favour of wife regarding maintenance.  It only enables the Magistrate to pass a maintenance order as per the rights available under existing laws.  While, the Act specifies  the duties and functions of protection officer, police officer, service providers, magistrate, medical facility providers and duties of Government, the Act is silent about the duties of husband  or the duties of  wife.  Thus,  maintenance can be fixed by the Court under Domestic Violence Act only as per prevalent law regarding providing of maintenance by husband to the wife.  Under prevalent laws i.e. Hindu Adoption & Maintenance Act, Hindu Marriage Act,  Section 125 Cr.P.C - a husband is supposed to maintain his un-earning spouse out of the income which he earns.  No law provides that a husband has to maintain a wife, living separately from him, irrespective of the fact whether he earns or not.   Court cannot tell the husband that he should beg, borrow or steal but give maintenance to the wife,  more so when the husband and wife are almost equally qualified and almost equally capable of earning and both of them claimed to be gainfully employed before marriage. If the husband was BSc.  and Masters  in Marketing Management from Pondicherry University,  the wife was MA  (English) & MBA.  If  the  husband was working as a Manager abroad, the wife with MBA degree was also working in an MNC in India.  Under these circumstances, fixing of maintenance by the Court without there being even a prima facie proof of the husband being employed in India and with clear proof of the fact that the passport of the husband was seized, he was not permitted to leave country, (the bail was given with a condition that he shall keep visiting Investigating Officer as and when called) is contrary to law and not warranted under provisions of Domestic Violence Act.  


5.  We are living in an era of equality of sexes.  The Constitution provides equal treatment to be given irrespective of sex, caste and creed.  An unemployed husband,  who is holding an  MBA degree,  cannot be treated differently  to an unemployed wife, who is also holding an MBA degree.  Since both are on equal footing one cannot be asked to maintain other unless one is employed and other is not employed.  As far as  dependency  on parents is concerned,  I consider that once  a person is  grown up,  educated  he  cannot  be asked to beg and  borrow from the parents and maintain  wife.  The parents had done their duty of educating them and  now  they  cannot be burdened to maintain husband and wife as both are grown up and must take care of themselves.

6.    It must be remembered that there is no legal presumption that behind every failed marriage there is either dowry demand or domestic violence.  Marriages do fail for various other reasons.  The difficulty is that real causes of failure of marriage are rarely admitted in Courts.  Truth and honesty is becoming a rare commodity, in marriages and in averments made before the Courts. 

7.    I therefore find that the order  dated 16th  January, 2008 passed by the learned MM and order dated 29th February, 2008 passed by the learned Additional Sessions Judge  fixing maintenance without there being any prima  facie proof of the husband being employed  are  not tenable  under  Domestic Violence Act.  The petition is allowed.   The orders passed by Metropolitan Magistrate and learned Additional Sessions Judge are hereby set aside.

August 27,  2010             

SHIV NARAYAN DHINGRA, J.
vn

 

http://lobis.nic.in/dhc/SND/judgement/28-08-2010/SND27082010CRLMM4912009.pdf

Friday, August 27, 2010

Divorce at 70? Plan some spiritual growth, says Supreme Court

 

JUDGMENT AWAITED

 

Divorce at 70? Plan some spiritual growth, says Supreme Court

Saturday, Aug 28, 2010

At the age of 70, it’s time to go on a pilgrimage to Hardwar and be divorced from the material world, instead of being engaged in a prolonged legal battle for divorce.

These are the words of the Supreme Court for an aged Juhu couple, seeking separation under the Hindu Marriage Act.

Making a bid to make them conscious that the age is catching up, apex court judges on Thursday counseled petitioner Veena, 70, and her husband, Govardhan Kapoor, 75, to share the roof. However, the court suggested that if the two wish, they may keep themselves separated by a wooden partition.

Veena doesn’t want to share the apartment with Govardhan and contested a Bombay high court judgment last year that made her share the accommodation as per a mutual agreement between them in the divorce case.

The couple married in Delhi on April 26, 1969. They have two sons — Navin, 36, who lives in America, and Sachin, 33, lives with his father.

In 1981, the couple started litigation after Govardhan suffered heavy losses in his business. Charges and counter charges ensued and Govardhan alleged that his wife had an extra-marital affair.

Govardhan’s case got stronger after Sachin testified in favour of the allegation.

While Govardhan moved a law suit seeking an injunction against Veena from dispossessing him from the flat, she sought a direction asking him not to enter the house.

Govardhan agreed to the term that Veena is the owner of the flat but he would live there with certain conditions that included installing separate electric meters and demarcating territory with a wooden partition.

But Veena’s lawyer DK Garg on Thursday told a bench headed by justice GS Singhvi that she couldn’t be expected to live under the same roof particularly when she had been accused of being in an adulterous relationship. She lamented that even her son had also sided with his father.

Disposing of her petition, the court said: “You can’t throw out the aged husband, but you can get the son out.”

Unemployed man can't be forced to pay maintenance to wife :Delhi HC

 

JUDGMENT AWAITED

 

Unemployed man can't be forced to pay maintenance to wife :HC

New Delhi, Aug 27, (PTI):

An unemployed man cannot be forced to pay maintenance to his estranged wife, the Delhi High Court on Friday ruled saying that in an era of equality of sexes a person cannot be compelled to maintain others if spouses are on an equal footing.

"Under prevelant laws, a husband is supposed to maintain his unearning spouse out of the income he earns. No law provides that a husband has to maintain his wife, living seperately from him, irrespective of the fact whether he earns or not," Justice S N Dhingra said.


The court passed the order while setting aside the order of a family court which had directed the husband, who was unemployed, to pay a maintenance of Rs 5,000 to his wife.


The court said the wife, who was equally qualified as her husband and was working in an MNC, cannot ask for maintenance from her husband who lost his job.


"Court cannot tell the husband that he should beg, borrow or steal but give maintenance to his wife, more so when the husband and wife are almost qualified and capable of earning and both of them claimed to be gainfully employed before marriage," the court said while granting relief to the husband who was an NRI working in Angola in Africa.


"We are living in an era of equality of sexes. The Constitution provides equal treatment to be given irrespective of sex, caste and creed. An unemployed husband who is holding an MBA degree cannot be treated differently to an unemployed wife who is also holding an MBA degree.


"Since both are on equal footing, one cannot be asked to maintain the other unless one is unemployed and the other is employed," the court said.

http://www.deccanherald.com/content/91906/unemployed-man-cant-forced-pay.html

also @

http://www.indianexpress.com/news/unemployed-man-cant-be-forced-to-pay-alimony-hc/673385/

http://www.hindustantimes.com/Unemployed-man-can-t-pay-maintenance/Article1-592789.aspx

http://news.in.msn.com/national/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4314490

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Can't say husband impotent without proof: Gujarat HC

 

FA/969/2010 23/26 JUDGMENT

IN THE HIGH COURT OF GUJARAT AT AHMEDABAD

FIRST APPEAL No. 969 of 2010

For Approval and Signature:
HONOURABLE MR.JUSTICE JAYANT PATEL
HON'BLE SMT. JUSTICE ABHILASHA KUMARI
=====================================================

1

Whether Reporters of Local Papers may be allowed to see the judgment ?

2

To be referred to the Reporter or not ?

3

Whether their Lordships wish to see the fair copy of the judgment ?

4

Whether this case involves a substantial question of law as to the interpretation of the constitution of India, 1950 or any order made thereunder ?

5

Whether it is to be circulated to the civil judge ?

=====================================================

RAJENDRA RATILAL DALAL - Appellant(s)

Versus

DHARMISTHABEN WD/O REJENDRA R DALAL & D/O BABULAL KAMDAR - Defendant(s)

=====================================================
Appearance :
MR VL THAKKAR for Appellant
MS DHARA M SHAH FOR MR SHIVANG M SHAH for Defendant.
=====================================================

CORAM :

HONOURABLE MR.JUSTICE JAYANT PATEL

and

HON'BLE SMT. JUSTICE ABHILASHA KUMARI

Date : 09/08/2010

ORAL JUDGMENT

(Per : HON'BLE SMT. JUSTICE ABHILASHA KUMARI)

1. The present appeal is directed against judgment and decree dated 26-8-2009 passed by the Family Court No.3, Ahmedabad, in Family Suit No.211 of 2003, whereby, the marriage between the appellant-husband and respondent-wife (hereinafter referred to as the appellant and the respondent as they appear in this appeal respectively) has been dissolved with effect from the date of judgment, under the provisions of Section 13(1) of the Hindu Marriage Act,1955 (The Hindu Marriage Act for short) and a permanent injunction has also been granted against the appellant.

     

2. The impugned judgment and decree came to be passed in a Suit filed by the respondent wife before the Family Court, being Family Suit No.211 of 2003, wherein she has prayed for a decree under Section 12 of the Hindu Marriage Act declaring that her marriage with the appellant as null and void on the ground that it has not been consummated, owing to the impotency of the appellant. Alternatively, a decree for dissolution of marriage under Section 13(1) of the Hindu Marriage Act was also prayed for.

3. In order to appreciate the issues involved, it would be necessary to briefly state the relevant facts, which are as under:

3.1 The marriage between the appellant and respondent was solemnised on 28-1-2000. The respondent is serving as Junior Accounts Officer in the Telephone Department whereas the appellant is working in a Private Firm. After the marriage the respondent started staying with the appellant in the joint family. However, it is the case of the respondent that the marriage has never been consummated due to the impotency of the appellant, and this state of affair has continued throughout. According to the respondent the appellant, apart from being unable to fulfil his marital obligations, has inflicted mental and physical cruelty on her, due to which she has been driven out of the house and has been living separately since 7/9 January, 2001 (except for 24-1-2001). She has, therefore, approached the Family Court by way of the above-mentioned Suit, praying for the relief of declaration that the marriage be declared as null and void under Section 12 of the Hindu Marriage Act. Alternatively, it was prayed that as the respondent has treated her with cruelty, a decree of divorce may be granted.

     

3.2 As far as the aspect of cruelty is concerned it was asserted by the respondent before the Family Court that the appellant has treated her with cruelty as his behaviour changed towards her after the marriage. The appellant started harassing her and forcing her to give Rs.9000/- per month from her salary and also to transfer the Flat purchased by her before the marriage, situated at Himgiri Apartments, in his name. As the respondent did not agree to the same, she was subjected to physical and mental cruelty and torture and also had to endure beatings and false allegations. She has even broken one of her fingers due to the beating given by the appellant. As per the say of the respondent, she tolerated such behaviour even though the appellant was unable to consummate the marriage. On the proposal of the appellant and his mother, she agreed to live with them separately from the joint family at her Flat at Himgiri Apartments as the existing premises, where the joint family was staying, were small and were shared by the brother-in-law of the respondent and his family. However, the harassment continued and the appellant threatened that he would commit suicide, if she refused to transfer the flat. It is the case of the respondent that due to the harassment of the appellant, she was compelled to leave her own Flat, and to start residing with her parents. Even after her departure the appellant and his mother continued to reside in the Flat of the respondent at Himgiri Apartments. On 24-1-2001, the appellant came to the parental house of the respondent and apologized for his misbehaviour, asserting that he would treat her well,therefore, the respondent had returned to Himgiri Apartments, on his assurance, but on the very same night the appellant started torturing her in order to compel her to transfer the Flat in his name. Even then the appellant could not fulfil his marital obligations, therefore, the respondent returned to her parental home on 25-1-2001. According to the respondent, the appellant threatened her that he would not allow her or her family members to live a peaceful life but on the very next day i.e. 26-1-2001 a devastating earthquake took place and Himgiri Apartments, was destroyed. The appellant sustained injuries and was admitted to V.S. Hospital. It is the case of the respondent that she had taken care of the appellant during the period while he was injured and served him as a dutiful wife, and had even taken him to a Private Hospital for better treatment. However, after recovering from the injury, the appellant has fraudulently taken a cheque for Rs.50,000/-, which was given by Mahudi Trust as compensation towards earthquake relief, by misrepresenting that he has purchased the Flat in the name of the respondent. The appellant had assured her that he would return the amount of Rs.50,000/- to her, but the same has not been done. It was further the case of the respondent that the parties have been living separately for more than two years and there is no relationship of husband and wife between them. However, the appellant used to come to the office of the respondent in order to harass and abuse her in the presence of her colleagues, which has resulted in an apprehension in her mind that there is danger to her life and limb from the appellant. Further, with the intervention of elders, a compromise was arrived at, in order to take divorce by mutual consent between the parties, wherein it was agreed that the compensatory amount of Rs.50,000/- would be returned by the appellant to the respondent, who was to delete her name from the Locker of the Bank, and give back articles of the appellant and the key thereof. According to the respondent, she has deleted her name from the Bank Locker and returned the key and has not taken any ornaments belonging to the appellant. The appellant has committed breach of the agreement and not returned Rs.50,000/- and also refused to sign on the petition for divorce by mutual consent, just to harass the respondent and extract money from her, as she is drawing a better salary than him. It was the case of the respondent that as there is no physical relationship between the appellant and her and as the appellant has treated her cruelly, harassed and tortured her physically and mentally, she was constrained to file the Suit for divorce, before the Family Court.

     

4. The appellant opposed the Suit, denying all the allegations levelled against him. According to the appellant, the allegation of impotency is false and incorrect and the marriage has been consummated on the very first night. The appellant is capable of fulfilling his marital obligations and the Report of the Laboratory, for analysis of his semen is in his favour, and the same does not prove that he is impotent. The allegations of cruelty, physical and mental torture, harassment, and beatings have been denied. On the other hand, the appellant has stated that it is solely because the respondent does not want his mother to live with him that she had levelled false and concocted allegations against him,for obtaining divorce. It is denied that he has compelled the respondent to leave the matrimonial home and is asserted that she left on her own, on 25-1-2001. Though the appellant has admitted that the respondent took care of him after he was injured during the earthquake, he has further asserted that when the respondent came to know that he suffered from a paralytic effect, she left his company. The appellant has admitted that he has received Rs.50,000/- as compensation from Mahudi Trust and as per the compromise he was to give the said amount to the respondent, but has asserted that the respondent has not honoured her part of the compromise. All other allegations have been denied by the appellant, who has specifically stated that he is not ready to give divorce to the respondent, unless she returns the cash and ornaments which were lying in the joint Locker. According to the appellant, as the respondent comes from a well-off family and was used to living a lavish life, and as her salary is more than that of appellant,she was dissatisfied with the marriage from the very beginning and had, therefore,decided to take a divorce from him. In this background, being aggrieved by the impugned judgment and decree of the Family Court, the appellant has filed the present appeal.

5. On the pleadings of parties, the Family Court framed issues for determination at Exh.14,which are reproduced herein under:

    "(1) Whether the petitioner proves that the marriage has not been consummated owing to the impotence of the respondent,and therefore, the marriage is null and void?

    (2) Whether the petitioner proves that after solemnization of the marriage the respondent treated petitioner with cruelty as alleged in the petition?

    (3) Whether the petitioner proves that the respondent has deserted the petitioner for a continuous period of not less than two years immediately preceding from the date of the presentation of the petition without any cause and without consent of the petitioner?

    (4) Whether the petitioner is entitled to get a decree of dissolution of marriage on any of the above grounds,if yes,on which ground?

    (5) Whether there is any legal ground under Section 23 of the Hindu Marriage Act for not granting the petition?

    (6) What order and decree?

6. The findings of the Court on issues Nos.1,2 and 3 are in the affirmative and on issue No.4 it is found that the respondent is entitled to get a decree of dissolution of marriage on the grounds of cruelty and desertion.

7. Mr.V.L.Thakkar, learned advocate for the appellant has submitted that the judgment and decree under challenge is liable to be quashed and set aside as the same is not in accordance with law and has been passed without application of mind, inasmuch as the Family Court has not considered the facts in proper perspective and had wrongly passed the decree in favour of the respondent, on the ground of cruelty and desertion. It is further submitted that even on the ground of impotency, there was no material before the Family Court to make good the allegations of the respondent, as a semen test is not sufficient evidence for establishing whether the appellant is impotent or not, therefore, the finding of the Family Court on this ground is un-justified. On the contrary, apart from the report of the Genetics Test Laboratory dated 3-7-2001 at Exh.22 produced by the respondent, where it is mentioned that the semen 'motility' is 'poor', other reports are produced by the appellant at Exh.43 wherein the count of semen is stated to be 'fair', but the Family Court has not taken these into consideration, and only the documents produced by the respondent have been relied upon to arrive at the conclusion that the appellant is impotent and that the marriage has not been consummated. It is further submitted by Mr.Thakkar that 'poor motility', as mentioned in the report at Exh.22, refers to the semen count, and as such it cannot be presumed to mean that the petitioner is impotent and incapable of consummating the marriage, therefore, the finding on issue No.1 regarding impotency of the appellant is incorrect, and not supported by any material on record.

     

7.1 Regarding the issue of cruelty, it is submitted by the learned counsel for the appellant that the fact that the appellant has taken Rs.50,000/- from Mahudi Trust as compensation for the Flat cannot be considered as cruelty to the respondent. Though it is denied that the appellant has inflicted beatings upon the respondent, it is admitted by the learned counsel for the appellant that it may have happened once or twice but beatings cannot be considered to be 'cruelty' as these type of incidents are the normal wear and tear of married life. It is further denied on behalf of the appellant that he was pressurising the respondent to transfer the Flat in his name. It is submitted that as the respondent was paying the loan on the Flat, there was no point in asking for transfer of the same, therefore, the allegation of cruelty is not proved. Similarly, the learned counsel for the appellant has submitted that there is no question of asking the respondent to hand over her salary to the appellant as the respondent was paying the loan installments therefrom, and hardly anything was left over after payment of the same. It is asserted by the learned counsel for the appellant that the appellant was also paying the monthly loan installments towards the Flat along with the respondent. Further, it is submitted that the respondent has taken money and ornaments from the joint Locker of the respondent and appellant during the time when the earthquake took place and she has not returned the same, which has not been considered by the Family Court.

     

7.2. On the point of desertion it is contended by the learned counsel for the appellant, that the appellant has never treated the respondent with cruelty nor has inflicted mental or physical torture upon her, or harassed her at home or at the work place, so as to compel her to leave the house. On the contrary, the respondent has voluntarily gone on her own, therefore, the finding of the Family Court that the appellant is guilty of desertion as the respondent had been compelled to leave the house due to his ill- behaviour and cruelty,is incorrect.

8. On the above grounds, it is submitted by the learned counsel for the appellant that the impugned judgment and decree deserves to be quashed and set aside.

9. Ms.Dhara Shah, learned counsel for the respondent has strongly opposed the appeal by contending that the judgment of the Family Court is just and proper, and has been passed after proper application of mind,after considering the cogent evidence on record. It is submitted that the appellant has not been able to adduce sufficient proof to the effect that he is not impotent and that the marriage was consummated. It is further contended that the appellant has admitted in his cross-examination that he used to quarrel with the respondent. The cruelty and harassment meted out by the appellant were of such a degree that the respondent was forced to leave her own flat. The learned counsel for the respondent has emphasised that there is no marital relationship between the appellant and the respondent, and they have been living separately since the year 2001, nor is there any likelihood of reconciliation between the parties. The learned counsel for the respondent has further submitted that even though the respondent had to leave her own Flat, she had taken care of the appellant when he was injured after the earthquake. Further, the respondent was living in the said Flat on the request of the appellant's mother and brother, and at no point of time has she refused to live in the joint family. It is further contended on behalf of the respondent that the appellant has not submitted any original documents before the Family Court and has only levelled baseless allegations, without any proof, therefore, on the facts and in the circumstances of the case,the Court may not interfere with the decree of divorce passed by the Family Court, which is perfectly legal and justified.

     

10. We have heard the learned counsel for the respective parties at length and in detail, in order to decide the appeal finally, at this stage with their consent. We have also perused various documents on record,including the deposition of parties and other relevant material made available to us.

11. The first aspect that arises for our consideration is regarding the finding recorded by the Family Court on the issue of impotency of the appellant, and his inability to consummate the marriage. After examining the entire material on record, we find that there is no conclusive medical evidence of any expert, produced by either of the parties which would prove that the appellant is impotent and unable to perform his marital obligations. In his cross-examination, the appellant has himself referred to the Certificate of the Genetics Center Laboratory at Exh.22 wherein, on analysis of the semen the report states that the 'motility' is 'poor'. The appellant has produced some reports of another Laboratory vide Exh.43 wherein it is stated that the 'motility' is 'fair'. On the basis of these reports, the appellant has sought to prove that he is not impotent. It is, however, an admitted fact that the reports at Exh.43 are not in original and have not been proved by the appellant by examining any Doctor or Specialist in the concerned field of Medical Science. In the absence of any conclusive proof or opinion of a medical expert, it is not possible for us to conclude that poor or fair motility of the semen analysis of the appellant would mean that the appellant is impotent, or unable to consummate the marriage. It is true that the respondent has categorically stated that the marriage has not been consummated in spite of the fact that the appellant and respondent went for their honeymoon for a week, which had to be cut short as they returned after two or three days due to some difference of opinion, but apart from the divergent stands taken by the parties on this issue, there is no material on record to enable us to come to any definite conclusion regarding the impotency of the appellant. The appellant has maintained that the marriage has been consummated and relations as husband and wife took place between the parties on several occasions. The respondent categorically denies this and has asserted that there is no consummation of the marriage at all. It is the ipse dixit of the appellant against that of the respondent. However, such personal and intimate matters are known only to the partners to a marriage, and in the absence of any specific proof of impotency by a medical expert,in our view, the finding of the Family Court that the respondent has been successful in establishing that the marriage has not been consummated due to the impotency of the appellant, cannot be endorsed. Though the respondent had sought a declaration under Section 12(1)(a) of the Hindu Marriage Act that the marriage be declared void and be annulled on the ground that it has not been consummated owing to the impotency of the appellant, the Family Court, though having found issue No.1 regarding impotency of the appellant against him, has not passed the impugned judgment and decree on the ground that the marriage is void as it has not been consummated, but has declared the marriage to be dissolved under the provisions of Section 13(1) of the Hindu Marriage Act, on the grounds of cruelty and desertion.

12. Insofar as the issues of cruelty and desertion are concerned, it is clear from the evidence on record that the respondent was serving in the Telephone Department and earning a decent salary, when she married the appellant. It is also an admitted position that the respondent owned the Flat situated at Himgiri Apartments where she was staying with the appellant and his mother. Though the appellant has stated that he was also paying monthly loan installments towards the Flat along with the respondent, there is no material on record to support this assertion. On the contrary, it is admitted by the appellant that the Flat was purchased by the respondent before her marriage and was in her name and she was paying the monthly installments. Though the appellant has put up a case that the respondent did not want his mother to stay with them, it is clear from a perusal of the material on record that not only did the respondent stay in the joint family before moving into Himgiri Apartments but the mother of the appellant also came to live with them due to the fact that the joint family house where they were previously staying was very small and was shared by the parents of the appellant, his brother and his family consisting, of wife and two children, aged 18 and 16 years respectively. The material on record does not reveal that it was on the insistence of the respondent that they moved to Himgiri Apartments as asserted by the appellant. Further, we find that in spite of the fact that the Flat where the respondent was staying with the appellant belonged to her, she was forced to leave the same due to the harassment,cruelty and continuous mental and physical torture meted out by the appellant, in order to compel her to transfer the same in his name. It is also clear from the material on record that the appellant has pocketed the amount of Rs.50,000/- which was given as compensation by the Mahudi Trust when the Flat was destroyed in an earthquake. Further it is admitted by the appellant that the respondent came back to take care of him after he was injured in the earthquake and had taken him to a Private Hospital for better treatment. The Family Court has found that there is no material on record to prove the assertion of the appellant that the respondent has taken away ornaments and cash from the Locker which was in her joint name along with the appellant. This finding cannot be faulted.The statement of the respondent that the Locker in question was given to her by her parents and the name of the appellant was added later on,as he was her husband, and that after the scandal of Madhupura Bank, she had taken her ornaments and gifts from the Locker, has also remained unchallenged.

13. The findings of the Family Court that the appellant has treated the respondent with cruelty by harassing and pressurising her to transfer the Flat of the respondent in his name, and by pocketing the amount of Rs.50,000/- towards compensation for the said Flat is, in our view, amply supported by material on record. It is evident that the respondent was compelled to leave her own Flat which she had purchased out of her own money before the marriage, due to the cruelty and harassment of the appellant. The material on record also points out to beatings given by the appellant to the respondent, which also resulted in a broken finger which has virtually been admitted by the learned counsel for the appellant. The allegations of taking away the ornaments would, constitute mental cruelty and cause pain to any spouse. It is not possible for us to believe that the respondent would have left her own Flat, where the appellant and his mother were staying, had she not been subjected to physical and mental cruelty of such a degree, so as to compel her to do so. The finding of the Family Court that the respondent has not left the matrimonial house without any reasonable cause as the appellant has forced her to leave the flat and that the appellant has, therefore, deserted the respondent for a continuous period of not less than two years immediately preceding the date of the presentation of the petition not liable to be interfered with, as the same is well-founded and supported by material on record.

14. In Manisha Tyagi v. Deepak Kumar, reported in (2010)4 SCC 339, the Supreme Court held as under:

     

26. At this stage we may notice the observations made by this Court in Naveen Kohli v. Neelu Kohli. In this case the court examined the development and evolution of the concept of mental cruelty in matrimonial causes. In para 35 it is observed as follows: (SCC p.568)

35. The petition for divorce was filed primarily on the ground of cruelty. It may be pertinent to note that, prior to the 1976 amendment in the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 cruelty was not a ground for claiming divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act. It was only a ground for claiming judicial separation under Section 10 of the Act. By the 1976 amendment, cruelty was made a ground for divorce and the words which have been omitted from Section 10 are 'as to cause a reasonable apprehension in the mind of the petitioner that it will be harmful or injurious for the petitioner to live with the other party'. Therefore, it is not necessary for a party claiming divorce to prove that the cruel treatment is of such a nature as to cause an apprehension a reasonable apprehension that it will be harmful or injurious for him or her to live with the other party.

(emphasis supplied)

27. The classic example of the definition of cruelty in the pre-1976 era is given in the well-known decision of this Court in N.G.Dastane (Dr.) v. S.Dastane, wherein it is observed as follows: (SCC p.337,para 30)

30.... The enquiry therefore has to be whether the conduct charged as cruelty is of such a character as to cause in the mind of the petitioner a reasonable apprehension that it will be harmful or injurious for him to live with the respondent.

This is no longer the required standard. Now it would be sufficient to show that the conduct of one of the spouses is so abnormal and below the accepted norm that the other spouse could not reasonably be expected to put up with it. The conduct is no longer required to be so atrociously abominable which would cause a reasonable apprehension that it would be harmful or injurious to continue the cohabitation with the other spouse. Therefore to establish cruelty it is not necessary that physical violence should be used. However, continued ill-treatment, cessation of marital intercourse, studied neglect, indifference of one spouse to the other may lead to an inference of cruelty. However, in this case even with aforesaid standard both the trial court and the appellate court had accepted that the conduct of the wife did not amount to cruelty of such a nature to enable the husband to obtain a decree of divorce.

(emphasis supplied)

15. The principles of law enunciated herein-above are applicable to the facts and circumstances of the present case, and the impugned judgment and decree does not deserve to be interfered with.

16. However, before parting with this judgment we would like to make it clear that there is no conclusive evidence regarding the impotency of the appellant, or the assertion that the marriage has not been consummated. The finding of the Family Court on this point,therefore, cannot be endorsed. However, as the decree of dissolution of marriage has been passed by the Family Court under the provisions of Section 13(1) of the Hindu Marriage Act, on the ground of cruelty and desertion and not under Section 12 thereof, the same is not interfered with. Similarly, as the Family Court has recorded cogent findings on the ground of desertion and cruelty against the appellant and in view of the material on record that the appellant used to harass the respondent at her work place and misbehave with her, the permanent injunction granted by the Family Court restraining the appellant from harassing the respondent at her work place and misbehaving with her and also with the father and brother of the respondent, is justified and not interfered with.

     

17. The appeal is devoid of any merit, therefore, fails and is dismissed. There shall be no orders as to costs.

(Jayant Patel,J)

(Smt.Abhilasha Kumari,J)

arg

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Pay compensation to widow for domestic violence but PWDVA does NOT allow court to restore property to wife

 

http://bombayhighcourt.nic.in/data/judgements/2010/CRAPPLN111109.pdf

Mediation: Stratergies and faq’s

 

Mediation: Stratergies and faq’s – 22August2010 – By Raghvendra Naik

What is mediation?

Mediation is a negotiation process in which a neutral third party assists the disputing parties in resolving their disputes. A Mediator uses special negotiation and communication techniques to help the parties to come to a settlement. The parties can appoint a Mediator with their mutual consent or a mediator can be appointed by the Court in a pending litigation. Mediation always leaves the decision making power with the parties. A Mediator does not decide what is fair or right, does not apportion blame, nor renders any opinion on the merits or chances of success if the case is litigated. Rather, a mediator acts as a catalyst to bring the two disputing parties together by defining issues and limiting obstacles to communication and settlement.

Why my case is referred to Mediation?

Your case cannot be referred to mediation without both parties consent. You and the other party have to sign in front of the Judge for your case to be referred to the mediation centre.

What type of cases is referred to mediations?

Any case which is civil in nature can be referred to mediation.

Is referring the case to Mediation compulsory?

No. Unless both the party sign in front of the judge that they agree to mediation one cannot be forced.

What will happen if I do not attend mediation?

Once you agree for the mediation it is better if you attend. If on the particular day of mediation you are unable to attend mediation due to unavoidable reasons then call mediation centre and inform about it. You can also inform your advocate who in turn will inform the mediation centre and get a next date.

What is the duration of the mediation?

There is no fixed rule but in Bengaluru, normally the file referred for mediation for 60 days and normally 2-4 sittings happen.

Can a decision be forced on me by mediators?

No, no one can force a decision on you. Though there have been cases where the opposite party will threaten you with 498A and try to extract huge sum. Never succumb to such blackmail. You have the choice walk out of the mediation room if any such thing happens. Immediately report such things to the Director of the Mediation Centre with a written complaint against the opposite party and mediator.

Is the presence of lawyer must in mediation hall?

Normally only the parties concerned have to be present in the mediation centre. E.g. in a divorce proceedings only husband, wife and the mediator should be present. For assistance advocates can be present. There are instances where parents, relatives and friends are reported to be inside the mediation room. You have the right to object the presence of the persons who are not petitioner/respondent.

What preparation is to be done for mediation?

Reach the mediation centre in advance and recollect your case. Never give in to blackmail/threaten/extortion. Be cool and remember you have the option to speak to the mediator one to one.

What is the outcome of mediation?

The outcome of the mediation is normally out-of-court settlement agreed by both the parties which is signed by both the parties and then presented to the judge for his consideration. It includes all pending cases criminal and civil.

Is the outcome of mediation binding on both parties?

Normally once both the parties have signed the MOU, it is binding on them but there have been instances where one of the parties has gone back from the MOU and restarted the case. You have legal options and many judgments are available which deal with such situation.

Is mediator equal to a judge?

No, Mediator is an advocate and a member of advocate bar with experience of not less than 10 years.

Is there an enquiry done by mediator?

No, a mediator only listens to both the parties and explores the option of out of court settlement.

Do I have to present evidence to a mediator?

No

Will mediator record whatever I say in the mediation hall?

No, nothing is recorded in the room. Mediator only writes final report whether it failed or succeeded. He does not write anything about behavior of the parties or any such thing. A mediator is not a judge.

My wife is demanding huge amount in front of the mediator. What should I do?

Never give in to threat/extortion/blackmail.

My mediation is wrt the divorce case but I have 498a and DV also. What will happen to them?

When MOU is signed then you need to make sure that all the cases are settled.

My wife has agreed to give mutual consent divorce for 4 lakh rs in front of the mediator. What should I do?

Never give in to threat/extortion/blackmail.

My mediation has failed. Now what happens?

Nothing! Your file will be sent back to the judge and the case will start like normal case.

I feel the mediator has mingled with opposite party and trying to extract money.

Never give in to threat/extortion/blackmail. If you feel you are n=being cornered in the mediation centre and the mediator is unfair to you the just walk out of the hall and complain to the Director of the centre.

My wife has given a huge amount of money they claim as marriage expense. What should I do?

As told before mediation centre is not a place to appreciate evidence. It is not a court hall proceeding.

My wife is putting all false allegations on me. What should I do?

Don’t lose your cool. Deny allegations and remind the mediator that you will chose to walk out of the centre if baseless allegations are leveled against you.

Delhi Mediation Centre

http://delhimediationcentre.gov.in/index.asp

Bangalore Mediation Centre

http://nyayadegula.kar.nic.in/

 

thanks to p suresh for the info

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