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Sunday, December 15, 2013

Rohini Court, Delhi - Kamini Lau Woman only can claim right on the property of her husband and NOT her Parents-in-laws' Property

Rohini Court, Delhi  - Kamini Lau - Woman only can claim right on the property of her husband and NOT on her Parents-in-laws' Property

IN THE COURT OF Dr. KAMINI LAU: ADDL. SESSIONS 

JUDGE­II (NORTH­WEST) : ROHINI COURTS: DELHI

CA No. 62/2013

Chetna Kapoor
W/o Dheeraj Kapoor
Permanent Resident of 253, 3rd  Floor
Rajdhani Enclave, Pitampura, Delhi. 
Presently at: 7/11, Tilak Nagar, Delhi.
................. Appellant

Versus

Suman Bala Kapur
W/o Subhash Chander Kapoor
R/o H. No. 253, 3rd  Floor
Rajdhani Enclave, Pitampura, Delhi. 
................. Respondent

6.11.2013

ORDER

Present: Sh. Vivek Aggarwal, Advocate with appellant. 

(1) This appeal under Section 29 of the Protection of Women From Domestic Violence Act, 2005, has been filed against the order of  Ld.  MM  dated   7.10.2013   dismissing   the   application   filed   on behalf of  the appellant   dated   25.6.2013   for   modification   / alteration   of   order   dated   4.6.2013 on the ground   that   the respondent has abused and misused the process of law by making false submissions which are contrary to the pleadings given by the respondent in her petition under Section 12 of DV Act, and obtained the order dated 4.6.2013.  It is pleaded that the Ld. Trial Court   has   totally   ignored   the  report of   the protection   officer holding  that   the appellant  had been  residing at   the above said premises with the respondent which fact was not disclosed by the respondent while obtaining the order dated 4.6.2013. It s further pleaded that the judgment of the Hon'ble Apex Court in the case of  Nitu Mittal Vs. Kanta Mittal & Ors., 152 (2008) DLT 691, was not applicable to the facts and circumstances of the present case since the respondent has no absolute power to throw out the appellant from the share household accommodation and there is no justified and lawful grounds for the withdrawal of the benefits given to her.  It is alleged that by their acts, the respondent have taken away appellant's valuable right to lead her life with dignity, honour and reputation. It is pleaded that the order dated 7.10.2013 is contrary to the letter and spirit and intention of the legislature in Section 2 (s) which defines the share household accommodation and also to the provisions of Section 2 (f) which defines  the domestic relationship. It is submitted that the Ld. Trial Court has failed to exercise its judicial power and discretion judiciously and totally ignored the material facts and the acts of the respondent is sheer misuse and abuse of process of law. It is also submitted that the Ld. Trial Court has failed to appreciate that the respondent in collusion and connivance of her son has dispossessed the appellant from the share household accommodation on 24.5.2013 and when she returned from the job she  saw  the  locks on  the  share household accommodation  i.e. house no. 253, 3rd Floor, Pitampura and hence the dishonest and fraudulent conduct on the part of the respondent totally disentitled her for claiming any release form the court and hence it is prayed that the impugned order dated 7.10.2013 passed by the Ld. Trial Court be set aside.

(2) After going through the impugned order and the grounds raised before me,  no notice has been  issued  to  the  respondent  as no requirement for the same was felt.

(3) At   the very outset  I  may observe  that I may observe  that   the Protection   from Domestic Violence Act,   2005  covers   those women who are or have been in a relationship with the abuser where both parties have lived together in a shared household and are  related by consanguinity,  marriage or  a relationship in the nature  of  marriage, or adoption; in  addition relationship with family members living  together as a joint family are also included. “Domestic   violence” includes actual abuse or the threat  of abuse  that   is physical, sexual, verbal, emotional and economic. One of the most important features of the Act is the woman’s   right   to   secure   housing. The Act provides for the woman’s right to reside in the matrimonial or shared household. This is an act meant to save a women from destitution. Under these circumstances the Courts of Law are under obligations to ensure that while dealing with the rights of the parties, the rights of daughter ­in­law are equitably balanced with the rights of other women which include the mother-­in-­law, as happened in the present case.

(4) It is not disputed that the property in question is owned by the respondent/ mother-­in-­law who is the owner in possession of the said property bearing No. 253, 3rd  Floor, Rajdhani Enclave, Pitampura, Delhi.   It has not been disputed that the respondent Suman Bala Kapur and her husband i.e. the parents­-in­laws of the appellant  are  the  registered and exclusive owners of  the above said property vide registered sale deed dated 16.6.2010 whereas her husband Dheeraj has no share in the same.

(5) The husband of the appellant i.e. Dr.Dheeraj Kapoor is working and residing separately at Chandigarh for the past several years. The matrimonial house of the appellant under the given circumstances is the place where her husband is working and residing and not where she herself chose to reside of her free will.

(6) It is also not disputed that the appellant Chetna Kapoor is herself a doctor in a Government hospital and is drawing House Rent Allowance. Hence, under the given circumstances the argument of the appellant that by her acts the respondent (mother­-in­-law) has allegedly taken away the constitutional rights of appellant to live with dignity, honour and reputation is devoid of merits.  The Right of a daughter in law does not over­ride the constitutional and statutory rights of her parents­-in-­law to enjoy their self acquired property in the manner they want.  If it is anybody from whom she is entitled to relief, it is her husband  Dr. Dheeraj Kapoor and her parents-­in-­law who are the senior citizens cannot be held liable for any kind of burdens. Here, I totally agree with the view taken by the Ld. MM which is in confirmation with the observations made in the case of Neetu Mittal Vs. Kanta Mittal  & Ors., wherein the Hon'ble Apex Court has observed as under:

“.........  where the house is self acquired house of  parents, son whether married or unmarried has no  legal right to live in that house or he can live in that  only at the mercy of parents upto the time  parents allow. Merely because parents have allowed him to live in house so long as his relations with the parents are cordial, does not mean that the parents have to bear his burden   throughout  the life. The  parents cannot be forced to keep a son or daughter  in law with them nor there is any statutory provision  which compels parents to suffer because of the acts of residence and his son or daughter in law. A woman has her rights of maintenance against her husband as sons/daughters. She can assert   her rights, if any, against the property of her husband  but she cannot thrust herself against the wishes of  parents of her husband nor can claim a right to live  in the house of parents of her husband, against their consult and wishes .......”

(7) The Hon'ble Apex Court while being confronted with a similar situation  in the case of  S.R. Batra Vs. Smt. Taruna Batra reported in  AIR 2007 SC 1118(1)  had an occasion to deal with the same wherein  it observed that there was no law in India similar to the law in UK i.e. British Matrimonial Homes Act 1967 and that the Rights available to a woman under any law can only be against the husband and not against the father-in-law and mother-in-law. In the said case the Hon'ble Supreme court had also observed that the house in question belonged to the mother in law and therefore the daughter in law cannot claim any right to live in the said house. In the said case the Hon'ble Apex Court  was of the opinion that the house in question cannot be said to be a shared household within the meaning of Section 2(s) of  Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act. The Hon'ble Apex Court was also of the view that the Definition  of 'Shared  Household' in Section 2 (s) was not happily worded and appeared to be a result of clumsy drafting and hence an interpretation which is sensible and does not lead to a chaos in the society as to be given.

(8) By application of the logic and ratio of the Hon'ble Apex Court to the facts of the present case, I hereby hold that the appellant Dr. Chetna Kapoor is only entitled to claim the Right of residence in a shared household  which shared household  as contemplated under Section 2 (s) of  Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act would mean the house belonging to or taken on rent by her husband or the house which belong to the joint family of which the husband is a member. In the present case, the property in question i.e. 253, 3rd  Floor, Rajdhani Enclave, Pitampura, Delhi is the exclusive property of the respondent who is the mother-in-law of the appellant with the husband Dheeraj Kapoor having no share in the same and hence the property in question in respect of which the appellant is seeking Right of  Residence cannot   be called a shared household within the meaning of Section 2 (s) of Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act.

(9) Assuming for a moment that the appellant was permitted by her parents-­in­-law to live in the house, it does not create any legal right the violation of which would be actionable rather on the contrary under no circumstances the parents can  be  made to suffer the burdens of their sons and their estranged daughter ­in­ laws. If it is anybody against whom or against whose property she can assert her rights, is the husband but under no circumstances can she thrust herself on the parents of her husband or can claim a right to live on their house against their consult and wishes.

(10) Lastly, keeping in view the problems and the disputes which have arisen between the parties and considering the background that the respondent is herself a working lady and in a position to maintain herself being doctor in Government Hospital, drawing House Rent Allowance, allowing her to reside in the premises of  her parents-­in-­law against their wishes will  only aggravate  the existing domestic problems and create numerous hassles for these senior citizens, which this court will not permit.  

(11) In view of my above discussion, I hereby hold that the impugned order dated  7.10.2013 passed by  Ld. Trial  Court  warrants no interference.The appeal is devoid of  merits and is hereby dismissed. Copy of   this order  be placed before  the Ld.  Trial Court. Appeal file be consigned to Record Room. 

Announced in the open Court        

(Dr. KAMINI LAU)
Dated: 6.11.2013    ASJ (NW)­II: ROHINI
Chetna Kapoor Vs. Suman Bala Kapur, (CA 62/13) Page 8 of 8

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Working mom has no time for child - custody given to Father

Working mom has no time for child - custody given to Father

There is a recent contrasting news from the same court...available here http://newsmanthan.blogspot.in/2012/02/working-mothers-can-have-childs-custody.html   )  Please take a note of the age of the child and the circumstances which are different in the two cases dealing with working mother

RULE: Available parent gets child custody of 5 yr old child.
(Working parent has no time to devote for the upbringing)

BOMBAY HIGH COURT
C.A. NO.82 OF 2004
IN
FAMILY COURT APPEAL NO.57 OF 2004

SOU. HEMA RAVISHANKAR (Applicant- wife)
Vs.
K.R. RAVISHANKAR

CORAM: S.B. MHASE AND R.S. MOHITE, JJ.
DATED: 18.10.2004

CITATION: 2004(1) ALL.M.R.124
2004(3)BOM C.R.143
STATUS: DISPOSED
ACT: HINDU MARRIAGE ACT

My short description of the judgement:
Typical background of cruelty etc. No criminal cases. Divorce granted by family court. Mother of 8 yr old boy (Age at the time of order), is working as lecturer in Mumbai from morning till late afternoon. during this time the child is left to the care of maid-servant. Mother earns more than father of child. Paternal grandparents available to look after the child. Allegations made by mother - child abuse by paternal grandfather of child. HC disbelieved this. Sister of mother lives as neighbour of mother. Father working as consultant from home in Pune.
Child wanted to continue staying with mother.
Child custody granted to father.
:-)

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NEWS IN MEDIA

'Working mom has no time for child'

Dated - Date:  2004-10-25

Hema (right) will now move the Supreme Court to try and gain custody of her son, Srikrishna (left)
 

The Bombay High Court has denied child custody to a divorced woman on the grounds that she is a working mother. 

While granting child custody to her former husband, the court ruled that even though she earned more, she did not have the necessary time to devote to their eight-year-old child. 

Last week the division bench of judges R S Mohite and S B Mhase granted custody of Srikrishna Ravishankar to his father K R Ravishankar (37), on the condition that the man move in with his parents, who can then look after their grandchild. 

Till now, the mother, Hema Ravishankar (33), a lecturer at H R College, Churchgate, would entrust the boy with a servant, while she was away at work. 

Hema said that as her parents died when she was a child, her sister and her brother-in-law have helped look after Srikrishna. 

She added that from the next academic year shed have been able to spend even more time with her son as the boys school timings wouldve coincided with hers. 

However, the judges observed, It would be better if the child is kept with the father and grandparents rather than abandon him to the care of the servant during the day, while the mother is out on her job.

Said Hema, I am sad at this ruling. I have looked after my child very well all these years and, being a lecturer, I have to put in only five hours of work. 

Moreover, this is one of the few professions where one can enjoy three vacations. She has decided to appeal to the Supreme Court against the ruling. 

The judges also stressed that even though Hema earned more (Rs 17,000 per month) as compared to her former husband (Rs 10,000), the father could still take care of the child. 

Hema and her husband had filed for divorce four years ago, at which time she also filed a dowry charge against her husband. Srikrishna has been living with his mother ever since. The divorce finally came through this month. 

Ironically, the judgment comes only a few months after an extensive study on women and parenting, which concluded that working mothers make better mothers than the non-working counterpart. 

The study titled General Role and Belief and Stress in Working Women, was conducted by the Sophia Centre for Women Studies and Development, in March this year on a sample size of 300 women. 

Beside other inferences, the study rules that children raised by working mothers turn out to be more confident, articulate and learn to share (if kept in a crche). 

Naina Rao Athalye, who conducted the study said: If the mother is working, the child gets exposed to a wider world as the mother brings home varied experiences.

Says Anu Shreenivasan, lecturer, Sophia College, I have brought up my daughter single-handedly. I think by being a lecturer, I was able to spend quality time with my daughter. 

Adds Hema, Its completely unfair to a mother. This is a blow to every woman in this country and I will find out what my rights as a woman are. 

When contacted, the father, K R Ravishankar, said that he would not comment as the matter was sub-judice.
What the child says
Srikrishna has been living with his mother and his maternal aunt. He is in Std IV at the Vivek Vidyalaya in Goregaon. 

The legal battle has taken a toll on the child too. Srikrishna has been interviewed on seven different occasions in the last four years and in one of the interviews he said that he preferred to stay with his mother. 

In yet another interview, he accused his paternal grandfather of sexually abusing him four years ago. 

These allegations were never made in the Family Court and the high court believes that Hema Ravishankar tutored her son to make up the allegations since a child would not be able to remember such an occurrence when he was only four years old.

Hence, the allegations were thought to be false and were not considered in the ruling.